Marriage is hard. Very hard. And unfortunately, there are times when it can involve lots of yelling. In an ideal world, couples would be able to have a calm, rational conversation about an issue, and often they can. But, sometimes, they lose control of their emotions, and they yell. And, for many people, being […]
For many people, they might seem obvious the reasons to avoid having an affair with married men. After all, they are married and not available, right? Unfortunately, for many women, they do go down that rabbit hole of having an affair with a married man. Nobody sets out to do this but it does […]
I recently read a headline about a woman who was abused who had been killed by her husband. He said it was an accident but, as the police investigated, they learned that her husband had been abusing her for years. When I discussed what happened with some of my clients, many of them, while […]
There is nothing worse than having a partner who struggles with depression, especially if you have never struggled with it yourself. And depression can have a devastating effect on relationships because managing it can be very difficult. While it might seem obvious, the steps you might take to help your spouse with depression (i.e. […]
Did you wake up this morning dreading the day and wondering why? Did you grab a coffee and your phone and settle in to ask Google why you might be feeling this way? Was one of your questions to the Oracle, Am I unhappy in my relationship? If you are reading this article, I […]
If you are considering an affair or have a partner who is cheating on you, you might have assumptions about what an affair is. You might believe that it’s all about sex and connection and fancy vacations and love and travel and all of those sexy things that are so appealing. So appealing that […]
For a long time, I have told people that having sex with an ex is a really bad idea. After all, you broke up. Why would you want to revisit something that made you miserable? What I have learned over the years, however, is quite different. That while having sex with our ex can […]
Knowing what to say to a friend going through a breakup can be very difficult sometimes. Why? Because we want to support our friend and help them heal but we also want to let them know they got off easy. That, if their ex didn’t want them, good riddance. We also might mistakenly assume […]
Every day, people reach out to me, asking me how you stop being jealous in a relationship. After all, no one wants to feel this way jealousy makes us feel insecure and unsure of ourselves and our relationship. I wish being jealous was something that we could just let go of but doing so […]
5 Super Effective Ways To Stop Stalking Your Ex on Social Media Did you know that stalking your ex on social media is the number one thing that will prevent you from getting over them? Why? Because going ‘no contact ‘is the thing that we need to do to move on. Stalking does not lead […]
