5 Ways to Handle the Family Pressure to Get Married When You Just Aren’t Ready

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Feeling pressured to get married? You are not alone.

Whether it’s from family, friends, or societal expectations, many people struggle with a pressure to wed that can feel overwhelming. And, those friends and family might just not understand that, for you, it’s not the time right now, and, perhaps, it might never be.

Luckily, there are ways to take control of your narrative, both with yourself and with others, and make decisions that align with your goals, on your terms and timeline.

After all, marriage is a personal choice, not a race.

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#1 – Set Clear Boundaries For Both Yourself and Others

Setting boundaries is a way to protect both yourself and your relationships. It is essential that you and those who love you have a clear understanding about where you stand and how you want to handle it.

Setting boundaries is an essential step in managing the pressures that can come with conversations about marriage. Dr. Vivian Oberling, a licensed clinical psychologist, puts it perfectly:

“Boundaries, at the end of the day, are acts of care. They protect you and your relationships with others (even if they can’t appreciate that in the moment).” [1]

The best way to set an effective boundary is to be clear that you understand your loved one’s motivations. After all, they most likely have positive ones; they just might not align with what you want.

For instance, you can say, “I appreciate your concern for my happiness.” Then, clearly state your boundary. You might add, “I know those words come from a place of care, but I’ve made my position clear. It hurts me when my feelings are dismissed.” This approach shows respect for their feelings while firmly maintaining your own limits and hopefully your loved one will understand that they are causing you pain and ease up.

Unfortunately, especially if someone is particularly attached to the idea of you getting married, this simple boundary-setting might not work. If this happens, try the “broken record” technique. Here’s how it works: state your boundary calmly and neutrally, and repeat the same phrase if the topic is brought up again. For example, you might say, “I respect your views, and I don’t want to discuss marriage right now.” If they continue to press, just repeat it. This prevents you from being drawn into unnecessary debates or feeling like you need to justify yourself.

Another helpful tip is to use the magic word “and” instead of “but” when addressing their concerns. For example, “I appreciate your wisdom, and I’ll decide what’s best for me.” This small change acknowledges their perspective without compromising your autonomy. If the pressure continues, you can set clear consequences. For example, you could say, “If you keep pushing this topic, I’ll need to end this conversation.”

When even consequences don’t work, remember the advice of psychotherapist Lynn Somerstein:

“Just because someone invites you to an argument doesn’t mean you have to go.” [4]

Remember, setting boundaries for yourself is essential too. You are not obligated to engage in every debate. You can choose to redirect the conversation to neutral topics like other things that are happening in your life. Alternatively, you can let these comments slide without reacting. Ultimately, you have the power to decide what conversations you want to engage in – and which ones you don’t.

#2 – Make Clear What You Want From Your Life Right Now

Once you’ve set boundaries, sharing your own aspirations can reinforce your independence and help others understand your perspective. When you explain your priorities – like career growth, continuing education, or achieving financial security – it becomes clear that your choices are about creating a strong future, not avoiding commitment. This clarity can help ease any loved ones concerns. [5]

A key part of this is to control of your story by showing that your current focus is intentional, not passive. [3] For example, saying something like, “Right now, I’m dedicating myself to advancing in my career, and I feel confident in that decision,” communicates that you have a well-thought-out plan. [3]

Again, make sure you express gratitude, such as, “I appreciate how much you care about my future,” but you can still make your priorities clear. And, if necessary, you can express your emotions about not having those goals accepted. For instance, you might say, “I feel overlooked when my goals are dismissed.” This approach encourages understanding without triggering defensiveness. [1] [4]

It’s also important to distinguish between genuine support and controlling behavior that might come with guilt or frustration. [1] [2] When loved ones understand your milestones – like earning a promotion, completing a degree, or achieving a personal goal – they’re more likely to see the difference between their care for your happiness and societal pressures that may not align with where you are in the world right now.[2]

You can redirect their enthusiasm by inviting them to celebrate key moments in your life, such as a graduation or a career milestone. This allows them to share in your achievements while respecting your autonomy over decisions like marriage. [1]

#3 – Take Stock of How The Pressure Makes You Feel

Once you’ve set boundaries and shared your personal goals, it’s important to take a moment to acknowledge any emotions that you might be feeling because of this kind of pressure.

The push to get married isn’t just about awkward conversations – it can stir up a whirlwind of emotions. Frustration, anxiety, guilt, inadequacy, or even resentment might surface as you face the expectation to follow a prescribed path.

These feelings don’t come out of nowhere. Societal norms and media often link marriage with maturity, creating rigid timelines that family members may internalize. Their concern for your future can lead to pressure, even if it comes from a place of care. To navigate these emotions, tools like journaling and open conversations can be incredibly helpful.

Journaling is a great way to declutter your thoughts. Becky White George, a therapist at Root to Rise Therapy, describes journaling as:

“Journaling is like taking that backpack off, dumping everything out, sorting through it, and deciding what’s actually worth carrying with you.” [6]

One great approach is what I call a “brain dump.” Take 10 minutes and write down all your worries without overthinking. These are not thoughts that are meant to be read and reflected on but, rather, about getting them out of your head and onto paper. Believe it or not, doing this can help you get rid of nasty thoughts that are racing around your brain.

Talking things through with friends and family who understand you can also be a powerful way to process your emotions. Dr. Vivian Oberling, a licensed clinical psychologist, explains the difference between helpful support and controlling behavior:

“Support feels grounding, like someone offering you a walking stick on a hike. It comes with flexibility – it’s offered, then left in your hands. Controlling behavior, on the other hand, comes with strings attached: guilt trips, repeated pushing, or frustration when you don’t follow their advice.” [1]

The key is to accept your feelings without judging yourself. Whether you’re feeling defensive, drained from justifying your choices, or simply tired of the conversation, these reactions are completely normal. By acknowledging them, you can start to manage them in a healthier way.

#4 – Focus on Your Mental Health and Self-Worth

After acknowledging your emotions, the next step is to protect your mental well-being and build confidence from within. The pressure to marry can sometimes chip away at your self-esteem, subtly suggesting that life isn’t complete without a partner.

But here’s the truth: your value isn’t defined by your relationship status. Instead of letting others dictate your worth, focus on creating an identity rooted in your own achievements, passions, and personal values. Dive into hobbies, pursue career goals, explore new places, or get involved in community activities. A fulfilling life built on your terms not only strengthens your sense of self but might also ease family concerns about your single status. Plus, it reinforces the boundaries and goals you’ve already set for yourself.

While shaping this independent identity, remember to be kind to yourself. Societal timelines can feel overwhelming, but practicing self-compassion can help ease that pressure. As registered psychotherapist Stephanie Woo Dearden wisely points out:

“It’s not your job to live a life that eases your parents’ worry. It’s their job to learn how to self-soothe their worry without resorting to control or guilt.” [7]

Another important step? Avoid falling into the trap of social media comparisons. What you see online is often a polished version of someone’s life, not the full picture. Marriage, after all, doesn’t guarantee happiness or fulfillment.

Finally, surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Building these connections can help you stay centered without giving in to guilt or control.

#5 – Consider Professional Help

Sometimes, setting boundaries and sharing your personal goals might not be enough to ease the tension of family and societal expectations. That’s where professional coaching can step in to provide clarity and direction. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on unpacking your past, coaching zeroes in on creating the life you want right now. Certified life coach Mitzi Bockmann puts it this way:

“If therapy is like archaeology, life coaching is like architecture. With therapy you dig into your past… With life coaching you build a life with where you are right now in the world.” [8]

A coach (like ME) can offer a neutral perspective, especially when you’re wrestling with “loyalty conflicts” – those moments when you feel torn between meeting family expectations and honoring your own goals. A coach can guide you in identifying genuine support and provide actionable tools to move forward. [1] If navigating these challenges alone feels overwhelming, working with a coach (like ME) can offer a structured and supportive path.

Handling the pressure to get married is about taking control of your life and making choices that reflect your values.

The five strategies outlined – setting boundaries, sharing personal goals, processing emotions, focusing on mental health, and seeking professional coaching – serve as very effective tools to help you regain that control. Setting boundaries ensures others respect your space, sharing your goals helps them see your perspective, processing emotions keeps you from making hasty decisions, prioritizing mental health reminds you that your worth isn’t tied to your relationship status, and professional coaching offers guidance to navigate these challenges with clarity.

Remember, your timeline is yours alone. In 2023, just 23% of 25- to 29-year-olds were married, a significant drop from 50% in 1993. Nearly half of all U.S. adults remain single today. [10] This isn’t about being “behind” – it’s about following your own path. As Brandy Chalmers, LPC, wisely says:

“Everyone’s timeline unfolds differently. When you start comparing yourself to others, remind yourself that you’re not behind – you’re just on your own path” [10].

Ultimately, whether, when, or how you choose to marry should be free from external expectations. By using these strategies and prioritizing what matters most to you, you’re not being selfish – you’re being honest about creating the life that’s right for you.

FAQs

How do I respond when my family won’t drop the marriage topic?

Setting boundaries is essential when it comes to such personal matters. Be upfront about your goals and communicate them in a way that’s respectful yet firm. Share your feelings openly, making it clear that your decisions about marriage are deeply personal and not something you’re willing to debate.

Reiterate your dedication to the choices you’ve made for your life. Keeping the lines of communication open can help maintain understanding, but if the pressure continues, it might be helpful to reach out to a counselor or professional. They can provide guidance and strategies that are specific to your situation.

What should I say if I’m focused on career or personal goals right now?

If you’re concentrating on your career or personal aspirations, it’s important to express this clearly and with respect. You might say something like, “At the moment, I’m focusing on my career and personal development, so that’s where my energy is directed.” This approach helps establish boundaries while addressing any expectations from family or friends in a polite way, making sure they understand and acknowledge your priorities.

Should I try therapy or life coaching for marriage-pressure stress?

Both therapy and life coaching can provide support for dealing with marriage-pressure stress, but they approach it in distinct ways. Therapy is centered on emotional healing and working through past experiences or traumas. On the other hand, life coaching is about setting goals and creating actionable strategies to move forward. Combining the two might be especially helpful – using therapy to process emotions and life coaching to strengthen confidence and establish boundaries. Reaching out to a certified professional can offer tailored guidance to meet your needs.

Here is a handy quick-referral guide to the steps that you can take to ease the pressure you might be feeling about getting married.

5 Steps to Handle Marriage Pressure and Set Healthy Boundaries

5 Steps to Handle Marriage Pressure and Set Healthy Boundaries

Why You Feel Like Your Life Is Falling Apart in Month 6 of Covid-19

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If you are like me and many of my clients I am guessing that you feel like your life is falling apart right now.

Do you find that all of the coping mechanisms that you have developed over the years aren ‘ t working? Do you feel worthless or like a failure or like you have no one who loves you? Are you questioning every decision you have ever made and are you wondering how you can ever be at peace again?

I have so many clients who are reaching out to me now, questioning everything in their lives and feeling like they are truly losing their shit. And, yes, they all have stuff they are dealing with but right now their burden feels overwhelming.

If you feel like your life is falling apart right now there are many reasons and most of them have nothing to do with you.

Let me share them with you now.

#1 – Life has changed completely.

Think about your life before March 2020. What did you do? Did you go out to eat and travel and visit your in-laws and drop your kids off at school and date and have ready access to toilet paper whenever you wanted it?

Did you assume that, no matter what the state of politics in the US, you had your own happy life, one with ups and downs sure, but with friends and family and freedom?

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, you are not alone. All of us always assumed that we would have the freedom to live our lives the way we wanted and, all of a sudden, that freedom was ripped away from us.

For the first time we couldn ‘ t go and do what we wanted to do. Many people lost their jobs and, even if you didn ‘ t lose yours, the unemployment numbers were staggering. Grocery store shelves were bare and any travel plans you had were cancelled.

And the government was confusing us at every turn, giving us no confidence that we knew how to get through this.

This is a HUGE! We have literally been thrown off balance in a way that none of us know how to cope with. We have been pushing through these last few months but now we are tired. Now we are scared. Now we wonder what is next for our family and our country.

And all of these events and emotions are overwhelming us to the point that we are doubting ourselves and our life choices and our ability to accomplish anything. This is what you are feeling.

#2 – There is no end in sight.

Here we are, 6 months into the nightmare that is Covid-19, and there is no end in sight.

In June, we had all hoped that the summer months would help reduce the number of deaths. The President promised us that it would all just magically disappear. Masks became the fashion statement de jour and social distancing was encouraged.

And yet, people continued to fall ill. People were told that Covid was a hoax and didn ‘ t follow protocols that might have saved lives. Schools are re-opening and children and teachers are getting sick. And there is no vaccine in sight.

Who can blame you for feeling hopeless and helpless and out of control of your life, especially when you know your health is being threatened by non-believers. You feel like you have no control right now, over anything, so it ‘ s really hard to feel like you have control over yourself. And that lack of control shows up as self-doubt and anxiety.

#3 – Winter is coming.

I know that in many parts of the US winter coming isn ‘ t as big a deal as it is for most of us but for those of us who do deal with long, cold winters, we know, and dread, what is ahead.

Cold winters mean we all move indoors. Outdoor dining and social events are going to evaporate. Colds and flu will run rampant, creating a fear that with every sniffle or fever we, or our family, have coronavirus. It ‘ s dark and cold and the outside experiences that got us through these last few months are going to be few and far between.

And who knows what is going to happen over the holidays – often the only bright spot before the long days of January, days when we see family and visit warm places. Just the thought of it makes me sad.

Even in the best of times, winter ‘ s approach can be daunting. Right now, as we all struggle with this ongoing pandemic, is seems almost unbearable.

#4 – Politics.

Today, Donald Trump was diagnosed with Covid-19. After six months of publicly denying it (and private confirming how dangerous it was) the President of the United States has this horrible disease and the world is upended.

Before this latest news, we have had 4 years of vitriol, hate and public displays that have dispirited us all. To name a few, in the past few years we have had the Kavanaugh hearings, which raised again the ugly specter of sexual abuse. Ruth Bader Ginsberg died suddenly, creating a constitutional crisis around the Supreme Court. Putin put a bounty on US soldier ‘ s heads and the administration did nothing about it. A foreign leader was encouraged to influence the presidential campaign. Families have been torn apart trying to come into our country. Science has been denied and our world is on fire.

And this is just a very small portion of what we have been dealing with since March 2020 and before.

Imagine if you were from another planet, looking down on those of us living in the US right now, can you imagine the empathy that you would have for us? For those of us, on both sides, who are angry and suffering and scared. For those of us who are afraid for the future of our children. How we are scared that our mothers and fathers will die alone.

If you are feeling off kilter and like your life is falling apart, know that even the strongest, most self-confident person is really struggling right now.

#5 – Too much of a usually good thing.

What is it that we all always wished for in our previous lives? What did we just not have enough of but so wished we did? What was thing that was passing before our eyes?

Time. We always wanted more time.

And now we have it. Lots and lots of time to sit around our homes, trying to stay busy, a little bit bored somedays. Lots and lots of time.

I know that for many people the time has been a good thing. I know couples who have grown closer because their busy lives no longer keep them apart. I know of families who have done things together that they hadn ‘ t done in years. I know that there is a lot of yummy bread and chocolate chip cookies that have been made and devoured. We have had time that we have never had before and it has been good.

The downside to all of that time, however, is that it allows our minds to run wild. The time that you used to spend riding the subway or going to the movies or having long boozy dinners with friends is now time often spent in our heads. Instead of running around, keeping ourselves busy, as is human nature, we are left alone with our thoughts.

The worst thing about our thoughts is that, more often than not, they only run negative tapes. I know that I do have some good memories that I like to play over in my head but more often than not I am thinking about that stupid thing I said in 3rd grade, about that time I chose badminton over track in junior high, about how I never appreciated one gift that my ex husband gave me, about how my depression affected my children.

And what do those negative thoughts do? They make me doubt myself and my abilities and my future in every way.

So, while more time has been a gift, recognize that that gift can also bring us to a place of self-doubt that might not exist if we weren ‘ t spending so much time not busy, alone with our thoughts.

If you are one of many of us who feel like your life is falling apart in month 6 of Covid, know that while it feels like it ‘ s all about you and your weaknesses, it ‘ s not!

The world around us feels like it is crashing and burning and even the most resilient of us are struggling to make it through.

Try to keep in mind, as you are struggling, that you are not a person who is weak or worthless or hasn ‘ t lived up to your own expectations. Instead, take stock of the person you are in the world, the people who love you, the good things that you have done, the things that you know you have to offer the world.

You might not be able to make big change right now but it ‘ s ok. Someday this will all be behind us and life will go on and you will get your stability back. And when you do, watch out world!

5 Things To Do Now that the Election is Over – Even If Your Candidate Didn’t Win

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This election has been unlike any in recent memory. The candidates are universally not liked, their interactions have been less than civil, and their positions on the issues are as far apart as they could be.

To make matters worse, the election has had a huge effect on every American. Friends are turning against each other, marriages are being strained, work places are full of tension. Anger and distrust is pervasive.

But now the election is over and no matter who won, life goes on. Things might be different politically, but we still have to get up in the morning, get the kids off to school, go to work, eat dinner with the in-laws, have a date night, and take out the garbage.

#1 – Check in with yourself.

I don ‘ t know about you, but for the past few months, I have been obsessed with this election. Every day brought stories more shocking than the day before. It was like seeing a bad car accident ‘ ¦I just couldn ‘ t take my eyes off of it.

And I swear it made me sick, both physically and mentally.

So take a moment now and see how you are feeling. Do you feel like you are living just a little bit on edge? Have you been having feelings of sadness more often than usual? Are you spending more time on the computer following the news than talking with your kids about their day? Do you spend your morning commute yelling at all of the incompetent drivers around you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then the election has definitely taken it ‘ s toll on you. Awareness of this will enable to you take the steps necessary to move forward after this messy election and be yourself again.

#2 – Step away from your computer.

This is key. No matter who won the election, the next few months and years probably, are going to be messy. Neither candidate is going to heal what ails our country.

And neither can you, at least not by obsessing over every little step and misstep that happens going forward.

So stop screen-sucking on CNN or FOX news. If you must be in front of a screen, instead of watching a new show on TV. Netflix just released The Crown, a period drama about Queen Elizabeth II. Or watch what I do: The Walking Dead. Nothing like a post-apocalyptic fantasy to take your mind off of the current day ‘ s woes.

Even better would be to get away from all of it and do something else. Anything else. Shop, hike, swim, read, joust, laugh, cry, travel, scream. Anything that will help you release the tension of the past few months and generate some dopamine to aid in the healing.

You know what works for you. Now is the time to do it!

#3 – Reconnect with friends and family.

One of the saddest bi-products of this election is how it has come between friends, families, between co-workers.

Social media has made this world a smaller place, and we know that people will post things that they wouldn ‘ t necessarily say in person. As a result, we have hurt and alienated each other. I know of many cases where family members don ‘ t speak, friends are no longer friends on Facebook and politics have been forbidden in the workplace to prevent anarchy.

Now is the time to rise above and start to mend those rifts. The election is over and one candidate has won. The supporters of the victor must try to remain humble and the supporters of the loser must accept the outcome and move on. And we must reach out to each other and remember that we love each other and work together to rebuild our families and friend groups.

If these important pieces of the fabrics of our life, the pieces involving love and connection, are permanently damaged then America will never be able to bring about the change that it so desperately needs.

And remember, we are stronger together.

#4 – Make a difference.

Do you know the saying, ‘ Be the change that you want to see in the world? ‘ There is no better time than right now to prove that adage true.

No matter who you supported, chances are that you aren ‘ t happy with the status quo. And you were hoping that the person you wanted to be President would make changes happen quickly. But, really, change doesn ‘ t start at the top but at the bottom. Think about Rosa Parks and her refusing to give up her seat on the bus. She sparked a movement that ultimately culminated in the Civil Rights Act of 1964, making discrimination because of race illegal.

So be the change. Choose an issue that is important to you and get involved. I know you wonder how “little you”can make a difference but believe me, you can.

I regularly give speeches to people with mental illness, telling them the story of my journey. The nurses say that every time I speak, one person who wasn ‘ t willing to accept that they are mentally ill does. And with acceptance comes healing. And with healing comes a life worth living ‘ ¦and that life will touch the lives of many others and make a real difference.

One person at a time.

#5 – Take a vacation from all of it.

We have all run a marathon. We are exhausted and weak from the effort. What our body needs is a break. Some nutrients. Some time to heal.

So take the next few months and just live your life. Go to work, be with your kids, walk your dogs, and read a book. Let your body recuperate from what it has gone through.

Americans are very bad at convalescing. When we are sick, as soon as the major symptoms are gone we get up and go on with our lives. As a result, we often get sick again. Over and over.

So take some time and do whatever you need to do to feed your body and soul. I know for me I am going to spend these last few weeks of fall weather at the park with my dog, soaking in the fresh air while I can. Oh, and watching the Walking Dead.

Our country is right now in a time of crisis. I think we all recognize this, no matter what our political affiliation. And it ‘ s time to make a change. For that to happen, every American must do his or her part.

You know when you are on an airplane and the flight attendants give the safety speech. They always say to put your oxygen mask on first before helping others. Following my tips is your oxygen mask. Take care of yourself, and heal from the anger and vitriol of the past few months. Make amends. When you are ready, go forth in the world and make a difference, if even in a very small way.

Together, we can change the world.

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5 Reasons Why Women Should Vote In US Elections

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I have spoken with many women how have said that they just aren ‘ t going to vote. I always respond, ‘ But you have to! ‘

According to exit polls, 53 percent of people who voted in the 2012 election were women. In most states, more women than men are registered to vote, and there is a much higher turnout rate for women at the polls.

These numbers mean power. And it’s time for women to wield that power.

#1 – To honor the women who came before:

The battle for a woman ‘ s right to vote started in the early 1800s with Susan B. Anthony and Lucretia Mott, among others, working hard to establish women ‘ s equality with men.

For almost 100 years, women fought for that equality, part of which was the right to vote. They were humiliated and discriminated against, the subject of derision and sometimes violence for their efforts. They didn ‘ t give up. Even when imprisoned and forced to hunger strike, these women fought on.

It wasn ‘ t until 1920 that the US government passed the 19th Amendment, granting women the right to vote. Even so, many states didn ‘ t ratify the amendment for years. Mississippi didn ‘ t do so until 1984, 60 years later and only 32 years ago.

32 years ago, women in Mississippi could not vote.

Don ‘ t take a right to vote for granted. It was hard fought for, and we women must proudly exercise our rights.

#2 – To honor the women we are now:

Much is being said these days about the persistent lack of equality for women worldwide. Women make less money on the dollar than men in the workplace. Ambitious women are labeled ‘ bitches. ‘ Women are discriminated against for getting pregnant or caring for children. Women are subjected to emotional and physical abuse by bosses and husbands.

It is time for this to end. And it will only end if we women take a stand.

In her book Lean In, Sheryl Sandberg talks about how women are held back but also how we hold ourselves back. She makes the argument that women need to advocate more for themselves, to believe themselves equal to men, to not allow discrimination to hold them back from anything.

She says that it is up to us to change our stars. No one else will do it for us.

Voting is one way for us to do this, to ‘ Lean In.” We have the right to vote. We have the right to have a say in our nation’s politics. We have the right to use our voices, which we often only whisper with, to bring about real change.

#3 – Because every vote counts:

I know it doesn ‘ t seem that way. Presidents have been elected, although they didn ‘ t win the popular vote. But your vote matters, particularly in your home state.

Each state has a different number of electoral votes, which is based on the total of all of its representatives in Congress, both in the House of Representatives and the Senate. A candidate needs 270 of those electoral votes to win the presidency.

In most states, for a candidate to win that state and its corresponding electoral votes, he or she must receive the majority of the popular vote. This is where your vote counts. Your vote will contribute towards a candidate winning or losing, a state which will determine the outcome of the presidential campaign.

If you don ‘ t cast your vote, your candidate could lose your state and, ultimately, the presidency.

#4 – Because important women ‘ s issues are now at stake:

More than ever, important women ‘ s issues are at stake, and the next president could have a huge hand in which direction those women ‘ s issues go.

At issue right now is:
*A woman ‘ s right to access Planned Parenthood
*Paid family leave
*Income equality
*Minimum wage increases
*Debt-free education

The outcome of these issues will greatly impact our lives and the lives of our daughters and granddaughters. We can ‘ t just sit back and think that ‘ everyone else ‘ will do this. We need to exercise our right to make a real difference by voting.

#5 – To set a good example for our children:

I remember in 1976; my mother took me with her to vote. It was the year that Jimmy Carter was running against Gerald Ford. This was not a campaign that had electrified the nation.

I remember driving to the voting booth and my mother telling me about my great-grandmother (and namesake), who fought for the right to vote, and how her lawyer husband fought alongside her (and got her out of jail when imprisoned). She impressed upon me the importance of voting out of respect for our grandmothers and those who fought alongside them.

I went into the voting booth with her and watched her cast her vote. And we got ‘ I VOTED ‘ stickers afterwards, which was huge.

Our children increasingly take a right to vote for granted and are disillusioned by modern politics. We need to teach them to demonstrate to them how important this fundamental American right is.

And how by doing so they can make a real difference.

Every American has the right to vote, which shouldn ‘ t be ignored, dismissed, or taken for granted. Without it our country would be a different place.

And we women have the power to change things in so many ways. Voting is one of them. So get out and vote this year.

Let’s change the world!

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