When I got engaged, I remember so well when a friend of mine told me that there are many ways that your mother-in-law can damage your marriage, even if she doesn’t want to. I remember thinking yeah, sure, but that won’t happen to us. Boy, was I wrong? Mothers-in-law’s are not inherently evil and […]
I can’t tell you how many times I have to tell my clients that social media can kill a relationship before it even starts. Why? I believe that, at its most basic level, social media can warp our perceptions of reality. I do believe that much of what is put out there is put […]
If you are reading this article I am guessing that you are trying to figure out how to be happy again after a break up. I get it! I have totally been there. I am not sure there is any pain more intense than the pain we feel after a break up! I remember […]
Good for you for looking for things to consider if you are getting married but unsure. Getting married is easy but staying married is harder and very few people consider this fact before they get married. They are picturing the wedding and the honeymoon and the babies but not what it would truly look […]
So many of us, myself included, find they have to fake it until you make it when they are feeling sad. Life is busy with work, family, friends, pets, etc. Who has time to be sad? I know that I don’t. Unfortunately, it can be very hard to not give in to the sadness […]
I know that it feels like an affair is between grown ups and something that kids will never know about but, if they do, the things that your kids learn when you cheat are quite significant and life changing. We parents work hard to set a good example for our children. We model kindness […]
Are your friends telling you that you are being co-dependent in your relationship? Do you not really know what that means? Is it a term you have heard but are you not clear on its meaning? The definition of co-dependent is characterized by excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who […]
Are you in a relationship where he won’t commit but still won’t let you go? Is your guy happy to spend time with you but won’t take it any further, no matter how much you talk about it? Are you getting more and more unhappy every day, confused about what he wants and unsure […]
Are you looking to the universe to show you signs that your relationship is solid? You are not alone! We all want to believe that the relationship we are in is solid that we have found OUR PERSON. Unfortunately, we often fool ourselves into thinking that something that feels awesome ‘most of the time’ […]
I know that it is probably inconceivable to you that you could forgive yourself after an affair. I mean, you have gone against everything you thought you knew about yourself and you are, most likely, stuck in this place of self-loathing. What I can tell you is that it is possible to forgive yourself after […]
