I know that it is probably inconceivable to you that you could forgive yourself after an affair. I mean, you have gone against everything you thought you knew about yourself and you are, most likely, stuck in this place of self-loathing. What I can tell you is that it is possible to forgive yourself after […]
When I got engaged, I remember so well when a friend of mine said to me: Just so you know, there are ways that his mother can poison your relationship even if she doesn’t mean to. I remember thinking yeah, sure, but that won’t happen to us.Boy, was I wrong. Mother in laws aren’t […]
Are you completely flummoxed about why it’s hard to break up someone, even if you don’t love them? Do you think that it should be easy? I mean, you don’t love them and you want to find someone you do love, so breaking up should be easy, right? Over my years of coaching clients […]
Good for you for trying to figure out how to help a friend who is depressed after a break-up. The second worst thing in the world, after getting depressed over our own break-up, is watching a friend suffer through one. We have been there, and we know how much it hurts, and our hearts go […]
Knowing how to save a marriage after infidelity and lies is the key to actually being able to do it! When we set out to save a marriage, for any reason, we often make the mistake of not defining our goal specifically and identifying the things that need to be done to get there. If […]
Are you wondering how to heal when your ex has moved on but you haven’t? Are you living every day in pain as you watch them get on with their life, maybe even date someone else? Are you feeling overwhelmed by emotion and the empty space that has been left after the break up? […]
Are you wondering if your depression is getting really bad after your breakup? Do you find yourself just getting sadder and sadder? Have your friends mentioned that you are not yourself? Have you been ignoring your mother’s calls for months? Knowing if your depression is getting worse after a breakup is a hard thing to […]
Are you looking for signals that your relationship is toxic? Do you look around at other people in happy relationships and wonder how you can know if yours is one of the good ones? Unfortunately, for many people it ‘ s hard to know when we are in a toxic relationship. We are just too […]
If you are reading this article I am guessing that you are miserable, that your married man stayed with his wife but won ‘ t let you go. I am guessing that you have spent months, years, maybe even decades, believing that he would do what he said he would do and leave his wife. […]
Recognizing when it ‘ s time to break up with someone is one of the hardest things to do. We get into relationships with so many hopes and dreams and, when they start to go awry, it ‘ s hard for us to face the facts. As a result, we struggle to figure out when […]
